The truth of the matter is your fate awaits you, certain paths you follow lead you into either happiness or sadness, to be rich or to be poor, to be in love or out of love. The list goes on and on.

Some individuals are dealt the good hand and sail through life without traumas, where other have nothing but.

Me, I could say I have had a rough ride to the full, not as bad as some but it has been, up to now, a struggle to adjust to anything and anyone. I have had half a century of, shall we say, not only not recognising which path I should have taken let alone finding it!

This brings to Women! I can honestly say I love them but understand them, no. Hence my poor attempt of having four marriages that have failed over the years. I wonder if it is just I? Or could it be the wrong choice and that we were not compatible over the time together?

As you mature in life you start to understand many things, alas, this does not include woman. I believe you have to be very lucky to have a very understanding partner and one who can communicate with the other so as to keep a long lasting relationship, not take an easy route and run! I believe you have to make an effort for everything, nothing comes free; if you work at it you have more chance of success.

So where did I go wrong I ask myself?

Just wasn’t to be I suppose, fate dealt a bad hand each time???

All you can do is try; if you have made the effort does it mean you have not failed? Can’t answer that one because who said it was meant to be right in the first place?

Am I confusing you? Not half as much as it is confusing me!

They say it comes in three’s, you bet!

First part of this year we lose our dog to illness, second I lose my mother in October, at the same time I am told that my wife has fallen out of love for me and she is leaving. I have now got to find somewhere to live, as I cannot afford the rent we pay together.

Talk about mind blowing, I can understand why I cannot grieve for my mum; bit of a shock isn’t it?

This is what I mean by what path you take, was it the wrong one or just bad timing? How do you know which is right and wrong? No way can you tell at the time, so does fate have a much bigger part to life than we think?

Some are lucky, some are not, and all you can do is pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start to get your life back on track.

Who said life is a breeze? Some one without problems me thinks! Is there such a person???

Many will snub or totally disbelieve it exists. Others will accept there is something there. Some will agree they believe certain experiences. Total disbelief usually points to fear, the fear of the unknown. Others just want to learn and understand what is it all about.

Unless you have generally had some kind of experience yourself I would find it difficult to understand how that individual could make a statement of total denial.

Unless an individual understands this is a phenomenon that chooses an individual to witness the particular event they wish you to experience, you will never understand or believe what it is all about. Having a closed mind to all paranormal activity is not being a disbeliever, it is a front for something far deeper within that individual. Everything has a reason when it happens to you, you just have to look deeper into that reason and find the answer.

Like I mentioned before, the element of fear is the biggest factor for the denial of belief of paranormal activity. Once you are passed this stage you can the look into your experience with open eyes.

We have been asked many times from many individuals on what to do when confronted with certain paranormal events. We have always said, the first thing is to understand spirit are not there to hurt you so there is no reason to fear it. You have to realise there is a reason for you to be chosen, ‘why’? It is up to you to find out! Until you have come to terms with the events you have experienced and fully understand there is a purpose for what is happening to you I would not advise you trying anything on your own. You would be surprised how many people think they can handle working with paranormal activity but when you experience a total unexplainable reaction it can render you quite helpless in the way of a major fright.

You must think carefully if you are ready to be in a situation which is completely mind bending and quite scary for most people.

Getting back to our disbelievers who will never think it will happen to them, I say think again my friends. Just because you do not believe it does not mean you would not be chosen to have one of these experiences, you see, the decision is not yours to make.

Lets face it, we can discuss this at length for eternity but at the end of the day it is only the individual who does have an experience that will understand. This is the only reason as time goes by that more and more people are starting to believe there is a spirit realm, but only because of their own personal experiences.

In my own experiences I have found that the loss of a loved one leaves individuals with unanswered questions. They want to believe in the spiritworld but do not understand it. They sometimes expect their loss to contact them straight away, this is not always the way. Yes, they will feel the presence around them but it is not what they expect. Grieving can cause all sorts of imaginary events, some might feel quite real and some can be real, but how can you know. This is where until you settle and are as comfortable as you can possibly be with you loss you will find it very difficult to accept anything as truth by way of any experiences you are experiencing.

As we are to understand, there is no time schedule in the spirit realm so if you are going to experience an event there is no way of knowing when.

All I can say to any individual who looses a loved one; I know what you are going through and it is not madness to talk aloud to them or act if they are still with you, this is the process of healing and grieving.

Sadly, not everyone will have the opportunity to experience a spiritual visit, why! I am afraid I cannot answer as this is only answerable by spirit themself.

Be patient, come to terms with your loss in your own time, painful as it is to you, you will adjust and have the fondest memories to cherish, however hard it may be you need to talk about them regularly as this does help your grieving.

Bless you.

I have just entered the experience of loosing my Mother, the experience is one of shock. Yes I am grieving and miss her terribly but have yet to shed a tear. It does make me feel very guilty but understanding my belief of the afterlife gives me a far greater strength that I actually realised. The understanding of the shell we live in is just for recognition to identify us towards others is the first acceptance for me, the second is the soul never dies and exists in spirit form and can communicate when chosen to do so.

I chose to visit my Mother in the chapel of rest and although she looked very peaceful there was the obvious recognition she had vacated her body. I know this sounds a little strange but she had moved on to the next stage, in truth it did not feel like I was standing next to my Mother.

This, to some might sound a little harsh but as I have mentioned the shell we live in is just for the time we spend in it. It is not needed when we pass, there is no use for it.

When we lose someone close to us the hardest thing is to accept it, it is the thought of never seeing or hearing them ever again. Something that has been snatched away from us is so devastating and unfair. The suffering can be never ending. The memories we collect are of a vast importance to help with our grief, they soften the shock when you can accept, in your own time, the loss you have encountered.

No-one can say how long grieving should take as it is an individual process, the shock can delay the healing process for some time.

I truly believe my Mother has rested in a far greater place and is free of any worries or pain as those before her, I also believe when she has settled she will show a sign of her being safe, either to myself or one of the family.

To help any one who has been in this situation and is struggling to cope remember my words, they will never completely leave you, in body yes but in spirit they will always be there, so just speak out loud and talk to them because they will always hear you.

May your wounds be healed by the belief of this.

Bless you.

Miss you loads you wonderful mum, will think of you always your loving son, we said goodbye only yesterday, with a service so lovely and we all could pray. Although in body you have left this plain, your spirit will surround us and visit us again. Enjoy your journey where you feel no pain, in time we will join you and be together again. You will be in our thoughts everyday, we miss you mum in every way. xxxxxxx Alan and Lorraine

For regular updates on our posts…trustactive.com/feed

My wonderful Mother passed away on Monday the 15th August. I have yet to react fully to her death.

Because I understand and work with spirit I fully understand she has left her body and returned to the spirit form, with time I will know she will contact one of the family.

The funeral is on Friday 26th August and I believe my grief will be released on this day.  I feel strange that I know I will never see my mother in her physical form again, I know she will be close and watch over our family until she feels we are settled.

My pain is yet to come, shock has delayed my feelings. I will be happy when I can let it all out.

Bless you Mum. Until we meet again. xxxxxxx

Over the years we found that many of you do not understand or are confused about paranormal events that can surround you. We discovered there was a main element of fear when this strange phenomenon chose certain individuals to express itself to. We can assure you it is not to be feared and with our experience in working with what most people understand as ghosts ( we like to make it known as spirit activity); Yes, it is easy for us to say not to be feared but believe us and trust us when we have learned as a team to work with any spirit activity, no harm will come to you.

Our first objective is to listen to what  you, the client has to say and acting on the information given, we can then set up an investigation within the dwelling. We have various equipment which needs to be placed in your dwelling, we would then need to discuss with you our setting up procedures. Our advice and results would be at your convenience at all times.

The team at Trust Active understand the situation you are experiencing and make every effort to be discrete and professional, we really do understand and we will help by giving our expertise from the results of the investigation. As you may understand, we work mainly in the darker hours. This is what we call the quieter time and has shown more frequent results than the daylight hours. It is a myth that spirit only let themselves be known at night.

Although we have strict rules, we are very open and relaxed, and we do have a good sense of humour. We do see the, sometimes, humorous side of events and it would not be normal to be otherwise. But our conduct is never in question, we work to the best of our ability for each and every client. We have a strong belief in trust, honesty and respect for all, client, spirit and not forgetting, your property.

Another important statement we will add is that we do not charge our clients. We do accept donations,  and we mean most sincerely, if and when they might be offered. This is solely used for equipment or transport costs.

The service is here for you; there is information for you on this website to read at your leisure, if you find you need  further  and more personal advice please dont hesitate to contact us, we can supply a contact number when you have emailed us.

It is you that seek the answers, it is Trust Active that can give them to you.

Bless you.

http://trustactive2@gmail.com

trustactive.com/feed

© 2011 Trust Active. All Rights Reserved.

Instead of asking anyone for advice about paranormal activity, why not ask people who know!

We will genuinely guide you through the answers you need, our experience with working with spirit activity allows us to do just that. Yes, correct and honest information.

No-one has attempted to build a data base for spirit rescue/clearance and guidance and as this is a very important and delicate procedure we think this needs addressing.

We are asking genuine teams to come forward.

To apply for your placement at Trust Active data base you will need to have a secure and professional team. Also you will need to have traceable references.

Once we have verified your details we can recommend your services to the individuals who are closest to your area that need help.

We are not looking for ghost hunting teams or proof of activity seekers, just genuine rescue teams.

Please send us your website and email details and we can begin correspondence to process your application.

This is for the UK only at this time.

We are prepared to help, are you???

Contact… http://trustactive2@gmail.com

There is no way of knowing if your investigator is telling you the Truth!

True I’m afraid: It is only you that can relate to what they are telling you, the rest is trusting in what they say. What many do not understand, it is at the time of the investigation, a good investigator/rescuer can receive many different contacts at many different times. It is up to them how they identify each one. It may have nothing to do with the dwelling they are in at the time; it could be visitation at that particular time. Repeated investigations could show different contacts each time because of visitation. This is where a good investigator/rescuer will identify each one.

It is possible to have; shall we say, three investigators/rescuers in one room and all three could have different contacts. But after time, if they work together they will adapt their senses to what is needed for them to identify who it is they need to communicate with. There is a great importance to the identification and communication process, otherwise you could not possibly find any information on why or for what reason the event is taking place. Spirit Activity has to be identified with the reason of the activity, once it has been identified you can proceed with what ever work is needed.

I say “needed” because each team has their own way of conducting their own rescue.

Many individuals can relate to what the investigator/rescuer tells them and are quite happy with the details they are given, but when an investigator/rescuer has further information about an event, it can sometimes cloud the individual belief because it does not comply with what they have witnessed theirself.

This is very understandable to the professionals because they know and understand what your going through, let’s face it, it is a lot for you to take in. There is a great part of trust and honesty for the individual to accept, they cannot experience what the investigator/rescuer can receive so it is all down to the individuals belief of what they are told.

As a professional investigator/rescuer, I can honestly say it would not be advised to lie or deceive anyone for any kind of merit. Your reputation would be in tatters within a short time. I would not understand to what point it would be to even consider this, you are in this line of work to help, so why deceive? Unfortunately there are many groups that do and yes it is difficult to find a genuine team amongst the many that now claim they are professional in what they do. I can only advise you to ask them for references or contact clients they have worked for, at least you have a chance of avoiding the fake ones.

So there you go; it is all down to trust and honesty for you the client. It is understanding the results of an investigation and accepting the work that is needed to resolve it. If you feel you cannot trust the team you first meet, do not use them. Go with your own feelings and find one you can relate to. ]]> http://www.trustactive.com/blog/how-do-you-know/feed/ 0 http://www.trustactive.com/blog/understandable/ http://www.trustactive.com/blog/understandable/#comments Fri, 01 Apr 2011 20:02:05 +0000 Alan.Founder/Admin http://www.trustactive.com/?p=2628 Why is it so hard for some individuals to accept the unusual?

How is it that when it occurs they can make the decision they have imagined it or just brush it off, even when it has happened on more than one occasion? Some will admit to others what they have experienced, on doing so they show their own doubt but they are still in denial? Many will hide it completely hoping it will not happen again!

This is all very understandable, the element of fear of the unknown is the culprit. Also being ridiculed from others can cause individuals to hide their experiences. I have known many who have been; for want of a better word, pestered by paranormal activity. The simple answer to this is it because whatever spirit is doing this, they need your attention. They need you to give them answers or receive questions from them.

If you are confused or find you not able to understand how this is done you should contact a team who is experienced in spirit rescue.

Our experiences have shown us the event will continue until the spirit concerned receives the necessary information they seek. The more they are ignored the more the activity progresses. In some cases it can be quite frightening, this is because the spirit can be very frustrated and angry and this is only because the individual that is chosen by them is not taking notice.

Once you, or an experienced team, like ourselves, has conversed and found the answers needed, the activity will become calm and if a rescue needs to be implemented the activity will move on to it’s rightful place. The most important issue is an investigation into the needs of the spirit in question and the experience on how to deal with it.

We have this experience and the knowledge of how to work with spirit activity and to calm and solve the visitation you are experiencing.

We offer our services to anyone who is in need of help and we are very discrete and professional.

If you are in doubt contact us and we can advise or work with your current situation.

http://trustactive2@gmail.com