Investigating Paranormal Activity
How many of us wonder what life is all about? For instance, what is our purpose during our time on this planet? Are we meant to achieve some sort of successful task?
The truth of the matter is your fate awaits you, certain paths you follow lead you into either happiness or sadness, to be rich or to be poor, to be in love or out of love. The list goes on and on.
Some individuals are dealt the good hand and sail through life without traumas, where other have nothing but.
Me, I could say I have had a rough ride to the full, not as bad as some but it has been, up to now, a struggle to adjust to anything and anyone. I have had half a century of, shall we say, not only not recognising which path I should have taken let alone finding it!
This brings to Women! I can honestly say I love them but understand them, no. Hence my poor attempt of having four marriages that have failed over the years. I wonder if it is just I? Or could it be the wrong choice and that we were not compatible over the time together?
As you mature in life you start to understand many things, alas, this does not include woman. I believe you have to be very lucky to have a very understanding partner and one who can communicate with the other so as to keep a long lasting relationship, not take an easy route and run! I believe you have to make an effort for everything, nothing comes free; if you work at it you have more chance of success.
So where did I go wrong I ask myself?
Just wasn’t to be I suppose, fate dealt a bad hand each time???
All you can do is try; if you have made the effort does it mean you have not failed? Can’t answer that one because who said it was meant to be right in the first place?
Am I confusing you? Not half as much as it is confusing me!
They say it comes in three’s, you bet!
First part of this year we lose our dog to illness, second I lose my mother in October, at the same time I am told that my wife has fallen out of love for me and she is leaving. I have now got to find somewhere to live, as I cannot afford the rent we pay together.
Talk about mind blowing, I can understand why I cannot grieve for my mum; bit of a shock isn’t it?
This is what I mean by what path you take, was it the wrong one or just bad timing? How do you know which is right and wrong? No way can you tell at the time, so does fate have a much bigger part to life than we think?
Some are lucky, some are not, and all you can do is pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start to get your life back on track.
Who said life is a breeze? Some one without problems me thinks! Is there such a person???
Posted on Dec 31st 2011 by Alan.Founder/Admin. 1 Comment ».
It’s all to do with your own individual experiences when you attempt a discussion about the paranormal?
Many will snub or totally disbelieve it exists. Others will accept there is something there. Some will agree they believe certain experiences. Total disbelief usually points to fear, the fear of the unknown. Others just want to learn and understand what is it all about.
Unless you have generally had some kind of experience yourself I would find it difficult to understand how that individual could make a statement of total denial.
Unless an individual understands this is a phenomenon that chooses an individual to witness the particular event they wish you to experience, you will never understand or believe what it is all about. Having a closed mind to all paranormal activity is not being a disbeliever, it is a front for something far deeper within that individual. Everything has a reason when it happens to you, you just have to look deeper into that reason and find the answer.
Like I mentioned before, the element of fear is the biggest factor for the denial of belief of paranormal activity. Once you are passed this stage you can the look into your experience with open eyes.
We have been asked many times from many individuals on what to do when confronted with certain paranormal events. We have always said, the first thing is to understand spirit are not there to hurt you so there is no reason to fear it. You have to realise there is a reason for you to be chosen, ‘why’? It is up to you to find out! Until you have come to terms with the events you have experienced and fully understand there is a purpose for what is happening to you I would not advise you trying anything on your own. You would be surprised how many people think they can handle working with paranormal activity but when you experience a total unexplainable reaction it can render you quite helpless in the way of a major fright.
You must think carefully if you are ready to be in a situation which is completely mind bending and quite scary for most people.
Getting back to our disbelievers who will never think it will happen to them, I say think again my friends. Just because you do not believe it does not mean you would not be chosen to have one of these experiences, you see, the decision is not yours to make.
Lets face it, we can discuss this at length for eternity but at the end of the day it is only the individual who does have an experience that will understand. This is the only reason as time goes by that more and more people are starting to believe there is a spirit realm, but only because of their own personal experiences.
In my own experiences I have found that the loss of a loved one leaves individuals with unanswered questions. They want to believe in the spiritworld but do not understand it. They sometimes expect their loss to contact them straight away, this is not always the way. Yes, they will feel the presence around them but it is not what they expect. Grieving can cause all sorts of imaginary events, some might feel quite real and some can be real, but how can you know. This is where until you settle and are as comfortable as you can possibly be with you loss you will find it very difficult to accept anything as truth by way of any experiences you are experiencing.
As we are to understand, there is no time schedule in the spirit realm so if you are going to experience an event there is no way of knowing when.
All I can say to any individual who looses a loved one; I know what you are going through and it is not madness to talk aloud to them or act if they are still with you, this is the process of healing and grieving.
Sadly, not everyone will have the opportunity to experience a spiritual visit, why! I am afraid I cannot answer as this is only answerable by spirit themself.
Be patient, come to terms with your loss in your own time, painful as it is to you, you will adjust and have the fondest memories to cherish, however hard it may be you need to talk about them regularly as this does help your grieving.
Bless you.
Posted on Dec 31st 2011 by Alan.Founder/Admin. 4 Comments ».