Many of us have realised that we all have a certain ability.

It is the recognition of certain feelings that show us there is something close around us. Sometimes the ability lets us see, hear or feel the presence.

How is it done I hear you say?

Some are born with this gift. Others are trained. Many are helped with the aid of meditation, this clears the mind and opens the way for learning.

When working with a team, over time, you can share your gifts between each other. You interact with each others gifts.

As many will understand at most times spirit contact can come through in what we call puzzles. As a team each individual will get the separate pieces, it is then that a successful team will put it all together with the information they all have been given. It is then that the answers are found.

Many parts of information are given by thought, these will be logged as the investigation is current and in time is put together each time the team needs to discuss their input.

Touch, from spirit is not common. Mainly this is because the protection each individual investigator has given their-self will restrict a spirit from getting to close. At times this can be strengthened or weakened to either push away or allow contact with the spirit.

Protection is the most important part of any investigation. Protection to the individual investigator and all who are within the area.

When you have the experience to open and close yourself against the elements, only then are you ready to go forward.

The negative side of spirit is something you do not take lightly. It can be very unpredictable, violent and depressive. It can attach itself to an individual if unprotected. It can push, poke and effect you in many ways.

Negative does not mean poltergeist, but can be recognised as similar. It has been known that many negative spirits are no more than frustrated. By this I mean they are not getting the answers they need for some reason, therefore they show anger to get the attention so as to show their presence.

This is mainly to be heard and tell of their discomfort. Once they have made contact they usually settle down and most agree to be moved on.

True negativity is the opposite, it is a spirit that will not want help and is there to torment. It has an axe to grind and is the dominant one. When entering a place of this spirit you will normally find it is very suppressive.

It can cause depression and in the long term will intend to drive you away. Poltergeist is the strongest spirit, you will need a strong team to deal with this type of spirit. It can move any object, and use it as a missile directed at what it wants. It can make physical contact.

To move this spirit on can take a lot of strength and much experience.

All this information is based on events that we….trustactive….have experienced, apart from the last paragraph. Not to say we are not ready to deal with this kind of event.

Truth is the way forward and truth is what you are reading now.

Come to think about it, well I don’t know about you guy’s but we are very sceptical. We don’t accept anything until we have made sure there has been a thorough investigation and only then can we say it is paranormal.

Scientific sceptics are the hardest to work with. Most who work with paranormal understand that you cannot mix science with paranormal phenomenon. The two do not work together.

A true sceptic will see both sides and evaluate any event without prediduce. Lets face it, until you have witnessed some kind of activity for yourself, you are bound to be a little doubtful.

It is strange, I have known many sceptics over many years and most of them have come to the side of the believer. The reason being, they have witnessed for their selves an event which has changed their whole outlook to paranormal activity.

I often wonder if spirits choose certain individuals that are sceptical, do you think that is possible?

Mere words from a believer isn’t enough so maybe they choose certain individuals and place them in a position where their views are tested. “I wonder who could be next?”

I mean, how would you feel if your views were against paranormal activity and you totally disbelieved. But then you witness an event which goes against all you have believed in.

Do you deny what you have witnessed or do you accept what has been put before you? Many will but a few wont. We are all free to live our own lives with our own opinions.

We all hear so many stories on our travels, but how many are really true? Do you believe the teller !!!!!!! “Thats your choice”!

Just remember it’s good to be sceptical.

Some have found that they have come to terms with knowing the spirit and soul of the person who has passed is free and will be with them. Their body is the shell and they have moved on.

Heavy words, but comforting for many.

We all have our own ways, some need to have a place to go, such as the burial site so we can talk to our lost ones. Others are satisfied to talk to them from anywhere it suits them.

The truth is they will always hear you no-matter where you are so dont be afraid to talk aloud anytime you like, because it not only helps you but your words will be heard.

Our main struggle is the physical loss.

When individuals are told by the person who is passing,”you have to let me go”, this is that person accepting it is their time and hoping you will understand this. Also this is preparation from them for you to accept this and help your loss.

This is what happened to my wife when she lost her mother. She comforted her until the time of her passing. My wife experienced seeing a number of expressions which showed her mother was seeing or hearing things. Her Mother said “He is waiting for me”, which meant her husband, my wife’s Dad, who had passed earlier. My wife explained to me it was hard to let her go but her Mother, by saying,”you have to let me go”, helped my wife to accept it was her Mothers time even though to this day she misses her greatly.

My wife has some amazing gifts and she is still in contact with her Mother, I myself have sensed her presence. It is difficult to accept we live in a shell, the soul lives on. Some of us are blessed with visitation, it is accepting this event that helps you through this heart ache.

When a person looses someone without warning it is much harder to accept. The sudden shock of not being able to have been there for them is so hard to bare.

Giving advice is never easy, but again you can reassure yourself, their spirit will be with you.

We ourselves lost a good friend just before Christmas. Les was a wonderful and kind loving person.

It is very hard to accept he has moved on. We will miss seeing him immensely. Whilst he was in hospital he would not have visitors because of his illness but we understood his wishes, we sensed it getting close for his time to go. We were offered to see him after but declined as we wanted to remember Les as we last saw him.

But again, we are strong believers in the spiritworld and we know and understand that we will hear and be heard when it comes to such a good friend, our Les.

We have always found that through our own experiences it is good to talk openly. It makes you feel close to your loss and with our experiences we have had many spirit visitation, although it is still a little early for our good friend Les, we look forward to that time when he is ready.

Believe in what you hear or see, never doubt it. It is there to comfort you so embrace it.

07/02/2010